I'm not sure I understand the relationships.
A particular instance of B may reference a particular instance of A and other instances of B need to reference the same instance of A. What's the setting for this type of arrangement?
I have the B reference attribute set to 'Peer' and 'Multiples' not allowed. It appears that if I insert an instance of A into the B attribute and then insert that same instance of A into the same attribute in another instnce of B the A instance disappears from the first B instance.
To further explain. Instances of A and B as follows:
A B
1 1
2 2
3 3
4 4
5 5
Instances 1,3, and 4 of B need to reference instance 1 of A. Instances 2,4, and 5 of B need to reference instance 3 of A. What is the proper setup for this situation if there is one?