Thanks for getting back to me on a saturday.
I plan to configure my server this weekend, so this is a big help.
I will be installing Ubuntu Server (6.10) with the automatic LAMP installation that includes php, mySQL, apache, etc.
Then I thought I would use an open source server control panel like ISP Config (ispconfig.org) so that the server would basically be like any other host. THEN will load AwareIM like a client and go from there.
I have never done this before, so good luck to me!
Thanks again.
Erik